Now, if I met that person who was 100 per cent deep into The Game [using rehearsed lines and psychological tactics to pick up women], I don’t think I’d like him. But I know I had to be that man to become the person I knew I could be. For me, it was a shallow path to self-esteem. A pick-up artist gave me a good piece of advice: the three most important things in a relationship are honesty, trust and respect, and if you don’t have those, you don’t have love. I have found that to be true. A friend said recently that you should date someone for a year, … Continue reading Neil Strauss